Stop Spinning in Doubt, Second-Guessing Yourself, and Replaying Every Choice in Your Head.

Short, practical, brain-based lessons that fit your life and tools you can start using right away.

"The audios are brilliant."

The audios are brilliant. Yesterday really blew my mind. It is such a relief to find your work. I am ecstatic to find this now.

Hina Knebuhl, Hawaii 


  • Short Lessons

  • Multiple Formats
    (video, transcripts, audio)

  • For Parents & Professionals

Why Parenting Essentials?

Made for parents and professionals who want...

  • 🧠 Short, practical, brain-based guidance.

  • 👥 Multiple perspectives (expert guests).

  • 👣 Pick-your-path mini-courses.

  • 💬 Language frameworks you can use immediately.

Make Parenting Less Painful and More Satisfying.

Does conscious parenting feel like a set of impossible "rules?"

Are you TRYING, but finding it absolutely exhausting, or do you feel like your every word is nitpicked?

  • You pause, but the meltdown still explodes.

  • You try “gentle words,” but your kids tune you out.

  • You’re exhausted from doing everything “right” with no change.

Most of us are stretched thin and desperate for a moment of peace. 

You're already doing your best. 

THIS MEMBERSHIP GIVES YOU EVERY COURSE & TOOL I HAVE TO HELP YOU:  

  • Find a balance between your needs and helping your kids.

  • Release the pressure to be "gentle" and say the right words. 

  • Create limits that work for your family without the guilt that you're getting it "wrong.


Many of us grew up with power-over models — obedience before needs, punishment before skills. 

We were sold obedience = good kids.

But compliance culture silences needs, punishes emotions, and leaves parents burned out.

It's not working. 

What works is when we know how to blend relationships, regulation, skills, and conscious communication—my four keys to everything.

When you see what drives behavior, you stop chasing compliance and start building skills and trust.

Parenting is hard enough. Investing in your relationship should be simple and stress-free.

Introducing my Parenting Essentials Academy: Your Blueprint to a Brighter Future.

I’ve spent 20 years teaching parents and professionals how to break the cycle of yelling, shame, and power struggles. This membership is the bridge between sleepless nights (feeling like you’re failing) and waking up confident, ready to lead with calm instead of fear (even when life is messy).

All-access pass to my ENTIRE LIBRARY of parenting topics. Yes, yes!! All of it. Every. Single. Course.

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Hearing the exact thing she needed to take the 100lb weight off her shoulders... that's what Lavanda got when she joined us.


"I feel a hundred times better!"

Lori Petro, you are truly amazing! What a fabulous Q&A call. I feel a hundred times better, and needed to hear every word you had to say. My heart thanks you for your compassion. I'm glad to be a part of this class and appreciate your work.

Lavanda Loncharich, Texas 

What You Get:

Flexible lessons to learn at your own pace.
Multiple perspectives from trusted leaders.
Brain-based emotionally intelligent tools.

You don't have to worry about choosing the "wrong" course.

Your complete toolkit to conscious parenting and communicating.

Breakthrough strategies, communication frameworks, stress and trauma resources, anger management, and skill-building activities, sensitive children explained - you name it!


If you've been unsuccessfully dealing with your anger, the steps in our series will show you how to stop blaming yourself and break the hard habits.

"I have enjoyed the classes so much."

I have enjoyed the classes so much. Yesterday I was triggered. I caught myself and began to investigate. Found the needs instead of beating myself up for them — my heart broke open and sobbing commenced. I have some hardened ideas beginning to soften. Thank you!

Jana Massey, Tennessee

I know that not every parent has the same challenges.

That's why the Parenting Essentials Library covers a wide range of topics, including:

  • Resources for when your reactive kid slams the door and refuses to engage.

  • Ways to motivate your resistant kid get off their games and try something new.

  • Guidance for the days when your kids are driving you nuts and you feel really bad about exploding at them.

  • Language your kids will respond to that is free of blame, shame, judgment, guilt, and fear without being permissive.

  • A private chat you can rely on for support while doing the heavy emotional work.

  • Webinars with licensed professionals teaching us how to recognize the signs and protect our kids from stress.


A better experience is really, truly possible.

CHANGE EVERYTHING THIS YEAR

THE PARENTING ESSENTIALS ACADEMY TURNS "PARENTING ADVICE" INTO CONCRETE ACTION.

Picture a time when you no longer lie awake at night with anxiety and self-doubt.

Look, nothing will ever be perfect. And if you've come from a challenging childhood, it's even harder to flip your thinking and trust yourself.

But I'm here to guide you through breaking all those family patterns (creating new neural networks) with my Parenting Essentials Academy Membership.
$597 ONE-YEAR ALL-ACCESS MEMBERSHIP

They're Growing So Fast!

From constant battles and second-guessing → to having the ability to stop yourself, get curious, and address behavior without force.

If you're like most parents who worry (sometimes endlessly) about their child's future - you might see the years flying by and suddenly think - is this it?

Is this how it will be for the next 5, 10, 15 years?

"They push my buttons every single day." 

"I'm tired of the power struggles." 

"Why is everything always such a battle?"

"I just want a break sometimes." 


These aren't flaws in your kids or your parenting — they're signs you need a better plan and new tools.



Empathy isn't easy when we're triggered or fearing what might happen all the time. 

Connection isn't possible when we're stressed out and viewing our children through a lens of "obedience." 

There's no point in judging ourselves (or our kids) when we can do so much to shift things in our favor.


You're not alone if you've woken up thinking: 


"I don't know what to do anymore." 

"I feel like I'm failing as a parent." 

"It's hard to keep up with everything." 

Carolyn was always defending her decisions and feeling defeated. Then she made it a goal to master our communication process.

"I now listen to my son to understand him."

Thank you for your course. It's been a wonderful defining point in my journey to effective, respectful communication. Everyone is benefiting from it! I now listen to my son to understand him instead of having to defend my decisions as a parent or give in!!  And nobody gets mad! Thank you, Lori!

Carolyn Magnussen, Norway


For the parents chasing their "spirited children, being "gentle" wasn't enough for Todd's family. Our work together filled in the missing piece.

"We recommend this course to every parent we know."

My wife and I highly benefited from Lori's TEACH program. We have been able to successfully discipline our daughter using non-traditional parenting methods. We recommend this course to every parent we know.

Todd Simon, California 


Kirista was constantly judging herself and felt like she was missing a crucial piece of the puzzle until she signed up for my classes.

"Thank you for your work. You are amazing."

I wanted to tell you that... I get it!! Lori, I get it now. I have the tools to help my son navigate negative moments with others and do it in such a way that makes sense to him and me - and the other child or adult without me feeling stupid. Thank you. Thank you for your work. You are amazing.

Kirista Berry, British Columbia


Is the Parenting Essentials Program Right for Me?

This is for you if you want to...

  • Make decisions without guilt or giving in and stop tip-toeing around your kids.

  • Learn the real secret to communication and stop worrying that you're damaging your child’s brain if you dare say, "Good Job."

  • Learn practices that can support you even if you're drowning in kid duties, job responsibilities, or aging parent needs.

  • Relieve the anxiety you have about positive parenting (which is stressing you out more than the actual problems you’re experiencing).

  • Give yourself permission to be upset AND learn how to deal with your child's resistance without control.

  • Access EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of my courses in a yearly subscription. (No commitment. Cancel any time.)

Which Class Should I Start With?

Not sure where to start?
Pick your path: Communication • Sensitive/Neurodivergent kids • Trauma Healing • Stress Regulation.

What are your most important parenting needs?

Click to find out which class you'll love.


Join now to learn about your child's growing brain, what might be causing their behavior, and how to reset YOUR nervous system with these Bonus Programs in our Expert Series Library. Including:

  • Conversations with Mr. Chazz (on Fatherhood), Dr. Laura Markham, Dr. Shefali, Patty Wipfler from Hand in Hand Parenting
  • Talking to Teens w/ Amy Bryant, EdS, LPC
  • Stress-Proof Your Kids w/ Elizabeth Walther, LCSW
  • Making Sense of Sensory Processing w/ Greg Santucci, OT
  • Daily Mindful Movement Video Practices

    - and SO much more!



Stop losing sleep because you're questioning whether your kids will grow up to be mature, responsible, and able to handle adult responsibilities. 

You can continue to endlessly scroll social media, searching for NEW tips and tricks to make your life easier and your days smoother. 

But what if you intuitively came up with solid strategies ON YOUR OWN - because you changed old patterns and can now respond compassionately (but not permissively.)

NEW! Updated!

Activities to Jumpstart Your Transformation!  My digital collection of  Workbooks, Videos, and Activities to help you take the first step without getting overwhelmed.


You don't have to decide between classes OR spend thousands of dollars to be a better parent.

Get through the burnout by learning how to resist the impulse to punish or give in. I want EVERYONE to have access to this information.

  • $597.00 / year

    One year subscription. Renews yearly. Cancel any time.

    START NOW

  • $897.00 / year

    ADD 3 PRIVATE SESSIONS-50 min

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Kimberley felt like she was losing her son and the divide in their relationship was only growing until she put these practices in place.

"Thank you!"

 Thank you for giving me my son back!

Kimberley Balfour, California

This Life-Changing Membership Opportunity Offers:

  • A curated library of my most popular courses, each tailored to empower you as a parent.

  • Techniques to rewire your brain, regain confidence, and create a deep, loving bond with your child.

  • Tools to help you listen to your inner voice - not the naysayers who tell you your child needs more discipline.

  • Self-paced courses increase your ability to take the ideas of conscious parenting and apply them to your situation with minimal outside support.

It's time to address the real reasons behind your child's behavior (because they're growing way too fast)!

If you want to ensure a strong relationship with your child and keep your sanity - stop questioning every decision you make!

YES! I WANT TO FEEL CONFIDENT!

Maria has EIGHT children! Her oldest was 13 before she left punitive parenting, but it turned out to be one of the best things she ever did.

"Best thing I've ever done for myself."


I learned so much about myself. It was the best thing I've ever done for myself and my family.

Maria Pilerio (Mom of 8 Kids)

I got to work with Jennifer's family 1:1 when they were ALL struggling with emotions. They did the work and their lives were forever changed.

"We are all so much happier!"

Working with Lori Petro in person has been an absolute gift from God! The monthly member support calls are invaluable! She has given me the tools to create a cooperative, respectful, and connected relationship with my daughter. I am forever grateful to her for the results we experience in our home every day. We are all so much happier!

Jennifer Miskiel, Pennsylvania



This Workshop Bundle is for Parents Who Have:

  • Trouble staying calm and curious.

  • Kids who defy and ignore punishments.

  • Difficulty speaking without blame and shame.

  • Kids who have experienced traumatic events.

  • Sensitive, autistic, or otherwise neurodivergent kids.

  • Tried to use "gentle parenting" but can't make it stick.

  • Challenges in more than one area or kids with different needs.

  • Wanted to join a class but needed a more affordable solution.

Some of our members are "lifers" for good reason. They stopped following cookie-cutter advice and finally understood what their kids needed.

"This is a miracle!"
I really feel like this is a miracle!! So many positive changes in our family thanks to you, Lori! I'm a lifer in your courses and community. Your work has profoundly changed me.

Jill Keuth, Colorado

So many parents, just like you and me, struggle with the same doubts and fears.

We believe our child's behavior is unwarranted, that things will never change, or that our kids are old enough to "take responsibility," and we're unsure when things are going to getting better.

  • $597.00 / year

    One year membership. Renews automatically. Cancel anytime.

    START NOW!

  • $897.00 / year

    ADD 3 PRIVATE SESSIONS-50 min

    START NOW!

"Transforming your home" isn't just fluffy promise-speak, it's what really happens for so many families.

"Your work continues to transform our family for the better!"

Lori! So grateful for your amazing work and how it continues to transform our family for the better. Danielle Senini, Australia

Danielle, Senini, Australia

Sensitive and neurodivergent kids are my favorite because I LIVED that life, and my perspective gives parents a look inside their child's mind

"Absolutely mind-opening and life-changing."

I found your program absolutely mind-opening and life-changing! We want to find a therapist with your outlook on neurodivergence. 

James Sim

This is time-tested, trauma-sensitive knowledge to help your child flourish into a mature, responsible, and confident individual, ready to conquer their future!

(even if we're starting with just getting them to pick their clothes up off the floor.).

  • Expand Your Personal Growth

    Explore courses specifically designed for parents like you and rewire your brain to be more confident and calm.

  • Actionable Strategies

    Quick, actionable strategies that fit seamlessly into your existing routine, allowing you to see positive changes at home with your kids without adding MORE tasks to your to-do list.

  • Developmentally Appropriate

    Learn to connect with your children, understand their unique developmental needs, and nurture their potential.

Make your life easier with real-life, concrete solutions so you're not constantly butting heads with your kids.

"Real-world steps that make life easier."

Thank goodness I found Lori Petro! She’s helped make me a better parent and person. I feel more connected to my 5-year-old son now. I now have the tools to have more empathy and understanding of my son. She gives specific, real-world steps and guidance that will make life easier. When I apply what I’ve learned, magically, the challenging behavior has changed. I’m eternally grateful to Lori and all she’s shared with me. 

Angie Sanders, Founder, Adoptive Families Support Group, Los Angeles, CA

You are NOT resigned to living a life of walking on eggshells or wanting to run away.

If the daily battles of getting kids out the door on time or to bed without a debate are wearing you down - you're so close to turning that around.

Each class contains bite-sized, lessons designed for parents who want to see results quickly.

If you put in the work and do the exercises (this is mandatory for real growth) - you'll create a nurturing, loving environment for your children, even with limited time.
Let's do this! Join the Parenting Essentials Academy today.

The Parenting Essentials Academy program was designed with your busy schedule in mind.

🕒 As parents, our time is a precious resource in short supply. You may be juggling work, household responsibilities, and your child's needs, leaving you with minimal time for personal growth.

But when the need for change at home with our kids is pressing, we want fast, effective solutions. Each course lesson is presented in mini-video sessions. And classes are accompanied by transcripts or optional audio lessons to accommodate the needs of all types of learners.

I'M READY TO LEAVE BEHIND THE PAST

If you're willing to put in the emotional labor to change YOURSELF too, you'll have no regrets..

"Worth every penny you will spend."

Lori is a wealth of knowledge and a true professional in her field. She is worth every penny you will spend on this series. If you are willing to be open and put into practice the things she teaches, you will, without a doubt, have no regrets.

Suzanne Teter, Pennsylvania 

You won't have to spend hours and hours and hours behind the screen to start seeing results. Some people feel the shifts almost immediately.

"I absolutely loved this class!"

I absolutely loved this class. I learned so much just from the first session. It has already changed my life! Love you for all you do! 

Strawberri Young, Utah 

Act Now because the Academy is only open briefly (I wish I could but I can't make it available all year).

Feel like you're "pretending" to be a peaceful parent? Get the support you need to make it a reality!


Making the abstract ideas behind conscious parenting concrete for parents is really important to me.

"I love how you teach and explain everything."

I must say that I have taken many, many parenting classes and read many books over the last 27 years. I love how you teach everything and explain everything.

Michele Barmore

Giving us not just the language, but the tools and process to communicate in new ways.

"Lori has a gift for teaching us how to communicate."

Lori has a gift for taking the ideas of conscious parenting and making them concrete by teaching us how to communicate in new ways. 

Dr. Shefali Tsabary, Clinical Psychologist & Author

BONUS UPGRADE to the Empowered Parent

Every day is a new challenge. Private sessions are NOW available. Let's connect and talk about how to build a more hopeful future for you and your kids. Add three 50-minute sessions with the upgrade.

When you access my complete library of courses, I promise everything will fall into place.

If you've always wanted to take a class but it seemed too hard to choose just one or felt way outside your budget, this program is for you.

GET STARTED TODAY!
(wake up feeling better tomorrow)

Do You Know the Top 5 Fears Peaceful Parents Like Us Might Experience?

Finding nonjudgmental support that addresses these fears and helps us navigate our emotional world is a crucial piece of learning to teach through love.

  • 1. Questioning whether this is "effective discipline."

We're worried about finding effective and respectful discipline strategies. It's understandable. We want to guide our children without resorting to punishment. 

Learn the difference between being punitive and allowing a true "consequence."

  • 2. Wondering how to balance boundaries and freedom.

Finding the right balance between setting boundaries and allowing children the freedom to explore and learn independently can be a constant concern. 

Discover how to empower your children while keeping them safe. 

  • 3. Teaching "respectful communication" feels weird.

Sometimes, we're so locked into our ways of reacting to our children that there's no room for change. We strive to maintain open and respectful communication with our kids. 

But our words aren't natural (it might even feel stilted or corny to speak with empathy). 

  • 4. Worried about raising a spoiled child.

Ohhh, we stress so much about how our children will fare in social situations, particularly when our parenting approach differs from more traditional methods. Conscious parenting is exactly what our society needs. 

Learn to end power imbalances and ensure your children can navigate social interactions with confidence.

  • 5. The judgment from other parents is stressful.

You'll learn to feel confident standing up to judgment and criticism from others who may not understand or agree with your methods. Handle the skeptics without doubting yourself!


Learn to block out unwanted opinions and stay true to your parenting principles with my Parenting Essentials Academy Membership.


"So happy to have concrete and practical methods."

This class is helping our family so much. I want you to know that I have read countless books and blogs, and talked to everyone around me for advice, but nothing compares to the perfect fit of this class for us. I am so happy to have concrete and practical methods to apply and real language that I trust to use! You are doing a most important job!!! Thank you! 

Yasmin & Billy Shaddox, California


Sometimes, as a parent, you need more than just information. You need an advisor, a guiding hand, someone to answer your burning questions and provide support like an old friend would do.

That's why I offer an exclusive opportunity to add Private Sessions.
PLUS - You'll have access to any Live Calls and the Q&A Archive, giving you the chance to:

  • Support & Special Topic Webinars

    Ask your most pressing questions and receive one-on-one support and answers during our live sessions.

  • Q&A Archive

    Explore our library of recorded Q&As for answers to the most common challenges your peers are experiencing.

  • Practical, Actionable Advice

    Get personalized insights and advice tailored to your unique family dynamics.

"Cannot thank you enough. We are seeing big changes!"

My husband and I just cannot thank you enough for the ways this course has affected our lives. We are seeing big changes. We had the instinct, the intention and the determination for conscious parenting, but lacked the skills and tools required to actually make it happen until now. A million times, thank you.

Danielle, Senini, Australia

"Absolutely amazing resource."

Lori is really great at giving you very clear direction about what to do in your situation. Have no fear! Her knowledge of children’s developmental stages and the information she has combined with a generous heart make her an absolutely amazing resource. 

Jennifer Fitch, California

BONUS: The Empowered Parent Membership

It's like having an advisor a click away - on your shoulder, ready to provide the guidance you need.

One-year subscription renews automatically. No commitment. Cancel anytime.

"Loved this class!"

Thank you, thank you, thank you. Loved this class & I look forward to taking more of your classes! 

Kirista Berry, California

FAQ

  • I already have some of these courses. How is this different?

    When you purchase individual classes, they are yours to keep! You have lifetime access to the course content. The Parenting Essentials Academy is a yearly subscription membership and includes access to my complete library of courses and the Expert Series for one year.

  • I just purchased one of these courses. Can I get a refund?

    No, I’m sorry. I cannot offer retroactive subscriptions or refunds on previously purchased courses. However, if you decide to sign up, know that the value of these classes far exceeds the cost, and you’re saving at least $1000 on all the other program fees.

  • I'm already a member of your Conscious Parenting Academy. Is this different?

    Yes. The Conscious Parenting Academy is a collection of sample lessons from my classes, giving you pieces of essential practices and shifts. It is free and practical. But this is way, WAY more.

  • How long do I have access to The Parenting Essentials?

    You have at least one year from the date of purchase.

  • When are your live sessions? What if I can't make the times?

    Special topic webinars are held throughout the year and posted in the Q&A Archive. Times rotate, and you can join live or wait for the recording.

    If you can't make it, send in your questions and receive advice in the recording.

What Parents Are Saying

I'm a mother of four, and you have been a critical part of my parenting. Thank you so much for what you do! 

Norah Staples


I can't say enough about the practical advice you get from this seminar! I learned how to speak much calmer and clearer (perfect for kids!) by listening to her example! This seminar helped my parenting take a swift turn in the right direction. It's worth every penny. 

Soni Albright


I have read quite a few books on conscious parenting, but just reading and listening to your sample audios about how parenting is about being in a RELATIONSHIP has given me amazing clarity, and I have had an incredible week with my nine-year-old daughter. Thank you!  

Sheila V. 


Don't Wait! The Parenting Essentials Academy is only open ONCE a year.

If parenting is harder than you expected - this is going to clear away the confusion.


YES! I'M IN!

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